“I Take Codeine Alot & Other Hard Drugs. I Couldn’t Boast Of N1M In 2016” — Toyin Abraham

Nollywood Actress, Toyin Abraham, has talked about her past, and has opened up on how she abused hard drugs like marijuana and codeine.

The actress made the disclosure at the 2017 edition of Success Story Africa, held at the TLC Auditorium, Lagos, on Sunday.

 You need to stop bad habits. I was involved in a lot of vices and it became worse last year,” she said at the event.

“I did drugs and I am not ashamed to say it because it’s now a thing of the past. They say codeine makes you high; I took a lot. I smoked a lot and I didn’t even know I looked horrible, because I was so skinny.

“If you came to my house last year, you would meet a lot of people and you wont want to leave because we smoked, gossiped about people and what have you.”

The actress also revealed that she once hawked plantain chips to help feed her family.

She said growing up was not easy for her because her family was not financially buoyant, although things worked out for them because they worked hard and were “spiritually buoyant”.

She also talked about the mistakes she has made in the entertainment industry and how she has not let the negativity shape her.

“I made a lot of mistakes when I began acting and that was because I did not have plans. I just wanted to be known.

“But, I now know that being popular isn’t the same thing as being successful. When I got into the industry and the fame became too much, I became irresponsible.

“I could not boast of N1 million in 2016. I was making money and I wanted to feel among. When one of our colleagues bought a car, it was trouble because we all strove to buy the same car or a bigger one.

“I had to change my circle for good and this change started in March 2017.

Previously called Toyin Aimakhu, the actress changed her name to Toyin Abraham in December 2016.

The well-attended event also featured inspiring speeches by ace comedian, Bovi Ugboma; and Commissioner for Information, Ogun State, Dayo Adeneye, among other speakers.

I’m not in love with any woman — Iyanya

Says: Yvonne Nelson is an old gist Iyanya Onoyom Mbuk a.k.a Iyanya, who came into limelight after winning the first season of Project Fame West Africa in 2008, and is best known for his hit single “Kukere” has been missing from the spotlight in recent times. Indeed, many of his fans have attributed this worrisome development to the ‘Kukere’ singer’s inability to be consistent even when he insists that he’s trying to be versatile. Here, he bares his mind on the direction of his music, his career and lifestyle, revealing why he cannot fall in love with a woman at the moment among other things. Iyanya BY BENJAMIN NJOKU You are a product of reality TV show. If you didn’t participate in the first season of Project Fame West Africa, which you eventually won, would you have become what you are today? Obviously, I don’t know God’s plans for me. But probably, I would have gone into business because I love money. Have you thought of giving back to the platform that brought you into the limelight? I set up the Iyanya Foundation which is my own little way of giving back to the society. Besides, there are other things I do which I don’t want to make public. One doubts if you have been able to make another great songs after your hit single, Kukere? I have been making great songs since I won Project Fame. I never stopped. But the songs never enjoyed massive acceptance like Kukere did? That’s what you think and that’s what the people think. But all I know is that I have been making great hits after hit. You just returned from your European tour for your Signature EP, how was the tour? It was great and one of my best tours. How can it be one of your best tours when you have gone back to your roots, which is RnB? That what the people think. I am a musician; I am allowed to be versatile. I won a competition in 2008. While the competition lasted, I had 10 weeks to do RnB or rock. I had no time to settle down for one. I have people who love the guy that won the first season of Project Fame as well as people who love the Kukere singer. I always try to balance it but it’s okay for everybody to have his or her opinion. I’m cool with it. You also have a body of work out there, how is your Signature LP doing? That’s the reason I went on tour. I toured fourteen states in Europe. It was a great tour and I’m back to the country. All I can say is that it was a great outing for me. Apart from the money that I made digitally from the sales of Signature LP, I have also been blessed. I’m cool with it. I toured America and Europe. It’s a blessing. On your social media account, you posted some pictures of girls who went along the line. Are you implying that girls do go crazy for Iyanya? I’m going to tag a guy called Henry. What I’m doing right now is that I would give him these videos so that I can post everything fans need to know about me. I don’t want to be uploading pictures, showing places I have to perform. Everything you need to know about me is happening at a higher level. Don’t judge me based on what I post or what I don’t post. I’m blessed. It doesn’t mean my life depends on my pictures or my videos that I post on my social media account. It is a social media world where everybody judges you based on what they see on your page. That’s not my life. I have a life that is different from what you see me post on social media. Do you feel that you are a better Iyanya now? Every day of my life I get better in everything that I do; performing, singing and writing songs. I’m a better person. I don’t know if you have had any interview with me before now. But I’m not that guy you used to know. I have grown in terms of the way I think, the way I understand things. Would you say having a creative talent management in place like Temple Management company and also being signed to Mavin Records was what you needed to push your career forward? Yes, Temple Management Company is a movement for me. They put money in my pocket when it comes to doing a job. The deliver 100%, I have no regrets joining the company. Mavin Records also is blessing so to say. I’m just happy that everything is working out well. How do you feel when people say, you are no longer the Iyanya they used to know some years back? What you think about me is not what is happening in my world. That’s what you think. You gotta feel what you feel. But I’m fine, I’m blessed. I’m still touring the whole world and I’m still living my dreams. But are you not missing being in the spotlight? What do you mean by that? When I’m running away from being in the limelight. Even without music, do you think I wouldn’t get girl friend? Check me out… The recent video your dropped, you told a story about your late mum. What informed the story? That’s me again trying to be versatile. I’m a musician, I’m trying to be versatile. There is nobody that will come into this industry and decide to limit himself. I won a competition and that means people voted for me to win that show. All these years that I make people dance, no one has taken time to drop out of a project. It’s like R Kelly, will you tell me that when R Kelly drops a new album that he’s not R Kelly anymore? If you check on R Kelly right now, he doesn’t have up to a million followers. Would you say he’s not R Kelly anymore? No! You can’t judge people based on what you feel. Are you not thinking in the direction of doing a collabo with your protege, Tekno? That will happen someday. Everything is based on time. At the right time, it will happen. We don’t want people to hurry us into doing something together now. This is because if we don’t do it well, the same people will criticize us. At the right time, we will put out something good. What will you consider as your happiest or saddest moment of your life? The happiest day of my life was the day I won Project Fame. I don’t have any sad day. I learn from my mistakes. Every day of my life is good no matter what happens, I take things in good faith. When things go bad I learn from it and move on. Has Iyanya found love? I’m not in love with anybody. I’m focusing on other things, but even when I fall in love, I’m not gonna reveal that to you guys. If somebody tells you guys this is my babe, the whole world will know about it. Over the years, I have learned to keep things to myself. I will show you guys my videos, I will show you guys my songs but I don’t think I will want to show you my babe. But what about Yvonne Nelson! That’s almost 10 years. She’s probably married now. It’s an old gist.  

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Unbelievable! Bishop Oyedepo is my role model – Timaya

Singer, Alfred Inetimi Odiom, aka Timaya, speaks with TOFARATI IGE about his career and misconceptions people have about him

You’ve managed to stay relevant since you released your debut album; how have you been able to do that?

I am grateful to God for the grace to stay relevant. I am constantly looking for new sounds and ways to make my music better. I also work with amazing producers who help to keep me on track.

You featured Paul of P-Square in your latest song, what inspired that choice?

Paul and I are good friends. I actually recorded Dance, sometime last year, but I didn’t put it out because I felt the song needed something extra. When I played it for him one day, he made a great verse and that was it.

From your experience, what are the qualities an artiste must possess to be successful in the music industry?

Every artiste must always work hard to improve his or her craft; the work never stops. No matter how popular or successful you get, you must keep getting better to stay relevant.

When you started your career, you were singing socially-conscious songs. But people have started to say that because you’re now rich, you only sing about irrelevant things like bum bum and money; why is that so?

This is funny, but that’s not the case. As an artiste, I am inspired by life, not just by one thing. I make music about the society, partying, love, beautiful women and my life in general.

Why do your songs contain a lot of vulgar words?

I do those types of songs because that’s what people really want. Some people criticise those songs, but they have millions of views and downloads online within a short period. We really should stop deceiving ourselves. Like I said earlier, I sing about a variety of things. Music is a money-making business, so I always consider what people want to hear and give them priority. That’s what fetches me money.

If you could go back in time to change one thing about your career; what would you change?

I am not sure I would change anything. I love who I am.

As a Niger Delta person, what have you done to bring up other youths in that region?

I am not a Niger Delta activist; I am a Nigerian, who wishes nothing but the very best for the country and our people. There’s a lot that I do, but I like to keep that part of my life very private.

A lady in the United States of America, Shella B, once accused you of sexual assault but you maintained that it was consensual sex. How was the matter eventually resolved?

I would rather not talk about that.

What lessons did you learn while hawking on the streets?

I learnt that to succeed in life, I had to stay passionate about my dreams, never settle for less and keep working hard every day. Most importantly, I learnt to believe that God makes everything possible in good time. I have been through a lot of things in life, and if I begin to share my story, you will be shocked. I was born into a fairly comfortable family but I was a rebel and I often ran away from home. I once lived in Port Harcourt with a woman who was older than me and she used me like I was a sex toy. I  had to service her whenever she had the urge in exchange for food and a roof over my head. However, I have always dreamed big. Despite my travails, I never let go of my aspirations while believing that one day, I would make it big.

Who are your mentors, role models or people that you admire?

That would be Bishop David Oyedepo. I attend Living Faith Church, aka Winner’s Chapel, and I don’t joke with the activities of the church. As much as I can, I make sure I attend as many of their services, crusades, and other programmes whenever I’m in the country.

What are the most important lessons you’ve learnt in the course of your career?

I have learnt that God is everything. He is the most important factor you need to succeed. If God is behind you and you work hard, you would be unstoppable.

Would you be getting married to the mother of your children someday?

I don’t want to answer that question.

We haven’t heard anything about Dem Mama Soldiers in a long time; do you still have any other artiste signed to the label apart from you?

My record label is called DM Records. I currently don’t have any acts signed on and I am currently not looking to sign any new acts right now. I may change my mind later.

What has being a father changed about you?

I would say that being a father has made me to be more patient.

Do you get to spend quality time with your daughters?

Yes, I do. Despite my busy schedule, I ensure I make time for them. Spending time with them is something that I enjoy tremendously.

What are your long-term plans for your career?

I just want to keep getting better at what I do.

People see you as being temperamental and arrogant; don’t you think that image is hurting your brand?

That’s not who Timaya is really. I’m really a nice guy; you just need to get to know me and you would realise that the picture painted of me is not accurate at all.

What are the three most important things to you?

My daughters and God.

Can you tell us something Nigerians would be surprised to know about you?

I have been told that I am a very funny guy.

Apart from music, what other business are you involved in?

Music is all I do right now and it has been taking care of my needs, so I’m okay.

How do you spend your day when you’re not performing on stage?

You would usually find me in the studio, or spending time with my daughters.

Apart from Nigeria, in which other country would you say you have the most fans?

I have a lot of fans in East African countries, and the Caribbean as well.

Do you have plans to collaborate with any foreign artiste?

I have worked with Sean Paul and Machel Montano. I am still looking forward to working with more artistes from other parts of Africa.

Which do you consider your biggest song?

I would say Bum Bum and Sanko.

How would you describe your fashion style?

I would describe my style in two words: easy -going and classic.

What’s your favourite fashion accessory?

I love wristwatches and shoes, and I always go for the really quality ones. I have a lot of them in my wardrobe.

What do you like to splurge on?

My daughters. There is nothing that I cannot give them.

 Do you have any regrets so far?

None. I am okay with where I am.

What are your likes and dislikes?

I like honest and hardworking people. I don’t like liars, lazy people or pretenders.

How do you unwind and relax?

Spending time with my daughters and family. Everything about me revolves around music and my daughters.

If you want to have a nice time, where do you go?

There a few spots I like, but I am not as particular about them as I am about my home. I really enjoy my own space.

Source : Punchng

[OG INTERVIEW] "No Matter How Beautiful Your Words Are If It Doesn't Have Any Positive Effect On People, Your Words Are Wasted" - Exclusive Interview With PENSHALOM, A Foremost Writer

Ladies and Gentlemen, I present to you Penshalom, The lady who has written so many Inspiring and Interesting stories online, Stories that have touched so many . We are honoured to have her on our platform, She's here to tell us much about herself and her stories... Happy Reading

PENSHALOM 

OG EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW ; PLS CAN YOU TELL US A LITTLE ABOUT YOURSELF?

My name is Adeniyi Iyanuoluwa Shalom, I'm from Kwara State, I'm an aspiring writer and I'm presently serving in Edo state.

WHAT MOTIVATED /INSPIRED YOU INTO WRITING OF STORIES ?

We'll, I've always loved stories, I read novels and I watch movies a lot. And I love anything that has to do with writing, like writing notes, typing, I just love it.

The first story I wrote "The Girl in the Background" was not planned at all. It was just on a Wednesday afternoon, after I broke a fast, the topic just came to my mind, I just picked my pen and a used book in my room and I just started writing, I snapped and sent to my friends and they were like they love it, so I sent it to a friend of mine who has a blog and he helped me post it on his blog and that's how I started officially.

Wow

WHAT IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP STATUS

Single

FROM YOUR NAIRALAND PAGE,YOU HAVE FOLLOWERS READING YOUR STORIES,  HOW ARE YOU ABLE TO KEEP YOUR STORY UPDATED EVEN WITH YOUR TIGHT SCHEDULES ?

It's not easy actually but because it's something I love doing I always find time for it, no matter how busy I am. And I'm a sort of person that does not like disappointing people, I always have it at the back of my mind that "some people are waiting for me to update my story and they will feel bad if I disappoint them even if it's just a person that is reading my story".

Great job 🏼

WHAT CAN A MAN DO TO FIRST WIN YOUR HEART? , I MEAN FIRST THING, INCASE HE  WANTS TO DATE YOU?

He should make me feel wanted and loved, like he actually wants to be with me. I just want to see his efforts.

MOST OF YOUR FANS BELIEVES YOUR STORIES ARE BASED ON TRUE LIFE EVENTS, HOW TRUE IS THAT?

Partially true. The thing is I get most of my stories from things happening around me, things I see, hear, and sometimes I just imagine an event, and then I try to relate it to myself, I imagine myself as that character, that if it's me, how would I feel? I guess that's why people think they are true events.

Wow cool

YOU MADE A POST RECENTLY ON YOUR FACEBOOK PAGE, TALKING ABOUT "We don't talk anymore, you are wondering why, I gave up on us"  IS THIS POST BASED ON YOUR PAST RELATIONSHIP OR SOMETHING ELSE, CAN YOU SHIELD MORE LIGHT ON IT?

Lol

You got me there.
It's based on something else.
I won't say more than that.

Okay?  IF IT'S PERSONAL, NO PROBLEM. 

MY NEXT QUESTION, WHO IS YOUR MENTOR?

Uhm, I don't have one in particular right now. I'm desperately looking for someone that will mentor me. I still need lots of things to learn.

AS AN AUTHOR, HOW DO YOU INTEND EXPANDING YOUR COAST?

I want to open a blog for myself and like I said earlier, I need a mentor,  so I can produce my own book.

Wow great ideas,

WHAT KIND OF BOOKS DO YOU READ,AND DO YOU HAVE AUTHORS YOU LOOK UPON AS A ROLE MODEL?

I read novels, romance, horror, fantasy and so on. There is this writer on Wattpad  Neileni Alejandrino, I like her stories, it makes you think you are really in the story.
Also, I love the book Purple Hibiscus which makes me love Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie's books.
I see myself to have touched lives through my stories and to have published my own book

SO HOW DO YOU SEE YOURSELF IN THE NEXT 5YEARS AS A AUTHOR?

I see myself to have touched lives through my stories and to have published my own book

WHO IS YOUR IDEAL MAN ?:

Apart from being Godfearing, I want a man that will love me a lot, and someone that wouldn't let go no matter what.

HOW DO YOU WANT PEOPLE TO SEE YOUR STORY?  DO YOU WANT PEOPLE TO HAVE IMPACT, OR TO READ YOUR STORIES JUST FOR FUN?

Definitely the impact, as a writer no matter how beautiful your words are if it doesn't have any positive effect on people, your words are wasted.

IS THERE ANY MEANING TO THE NAME PENSHALOM?

 

Nah, it's just a name myself and a friend came up with while playing.

HOW MANY STORIES HAVE YOU WRITTEN SO FAR AND ANY UP COMING STORIES AHEAD
CAN WE GET THE TITLE OF YOUR PREVIOUS STORIES?

The Girl in the Background
The Lucky One
Slay Queen
Freedom
Surrounded
Sold Out
Addicted
Saved Through Love
Through the storm
I have written nine stories so far and new one coming is titled WOUNDED

SO TELL US, WHICH OF THE STORY DID YOU ENJOY WRITING AND WHY?

I enjoyed writing "Saved Through Love" and it's sequel "Through the Storm" the most, I just feel connected to the characters even though they are not real. Weird right?
Hmmmm beautiful..... No, it's not

DEDICATE THE INTERVIEW TO SOMEONE SPECIAL AND  TELL US REASONS WHY YOU ARE DEDICATING IT?

There are so many special people, dedicating to one person will make me an ingrate so I'm dedicating to all of my friends and my readers, you know yourselves. Thank you for your support, God bless you all.

ANY LAST WORD FOR YOUR FANS OUT THERE ?

Thank you for your support, thank you for reading my stories and I hope you continue to read them and also buy hard copies of my books when I actually start publishing my stories.
I love you all.
Peace out.

I Communicate Better Than Other Rappers – Lil Kesh Speaks On His Advantage In The Industry

YAGI Records rapper Lil Kesh spoke on his advantage over other Nigerian rappers in a recent interview. The rapper, who recently released a song titled Baby Favour, mentioned that his advantage over other rappers in the music industry lies in the fact that he communicates with a wider range of audience, as a result of blending different native languages into his music.

The sociable rapper further stated that his kind of music, indigenous rap, is highly marketable in Nigeria because a lot of Nigerian fans can relate to it.

Watch the interview here.

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(OG INTERVIEW) If He Cannot Make Me Moan Multiple Times In Bed He Should Forget It- EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW WITH Ayoyinka Odeyemi, A Foremost Blogger.

OG was opportuned to meet with Ayoyinka Odeyemi in Ikeja Lagos, enjoy the brainresettings blogger's interview as she bare it all.

O G- PLS CAN YOU TELL US A LITTLE ABOUT YOURSELF?

I am Ayoyinka  Florence Odeyemi, born and bred in Lagos but originally from osun state. Number 8 out of 9 children from my parents. I graduated from (OAU),Obafemi Awolowo University, studied FRENCH AND EDUCATION.i am a blogger,a  relationship coach.

WHAT MOTIVATED /INSPIRED YOU INTO YOUR KIND OF BLOG? (LOVE,LIFE AND RELATIONSHIP BLOG)

I think it has been destined to be what I will do because I can remember vividly right from my school days, I advice my friends about their relationship issues, they also bring their friends too.. if they follow whatever I told them, they usually come back to say thank you to me, though the devil waged a very big war against me few years back but I am now an over comer, i deviated in school but God made me to rise above all issues and i move on quickly. Today, I have become a very strong woman.
So my inspiration is from God and all the tremendous experiences have had....yes I have had vast experiences when it comes to relationships.

WHAT IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP STATUS

I am single

FROM YOUR FANS PAGE,YOU HAVE LOTS OF FOLLOWERS,  HOW ARE YOU ABLE TO KEEP COACHING THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE DAILY AS A SINGLE WOMAN BECAUSE MANY WOULD THINK ONLY A MARRIED WOMAN SHOULD BE A COACH ?

I don't really understand what people think marriage is, whenever a single woman is doing something nice, the next thing people wants to pokenose if she's married and that's why many are entering into marriage of an error and they are  dieing wasting their destinies away...who says a single lady can't be a coach? If you know the experiences have had then you would understand that it will be a waste if I don't coach. Well if they have never seen any single lady who coaches, Ayoyinka Odeyemi is here to make a difference.
Like I said up there, this is what have been destined to do, I coach people daily from the inspirations I get from God then added the various experiences have had...and I also think the education I studied isn't a waste too in this scenario. Honestly people are testifying, I wish I could show you my email you would marvel at the kind of mail I get daily.  Some would say " Ayo, I have really learnt my lessons the hard way thought you were teaching us bad things until it happened to me,thanks for been a saviour please keep up the good work, don't stop". So even when some unappreciative people come to my blog to oppose my posts, I don't really give a damn because I know where I am heading to,I have a focus and a direction. My experiences in terms of relationship issues are too enormous to be wasted just like that without making people, especially the younger ones learn from it.

THERE'S A RUMOUR GOING ROUND THAT YOU ARE DATING ONE OF YOUR FANS HOW TRUE IS THIS ?

Please where did you get that from? Anyway the only one I know who was an Ayolite (my fans are called ayolites) we met some few months back then I posted our pics we both snapped on my blog ,that was how people blew it out of proportion, well anyone can say whatever they like, am not the type that listen to gossip and I know what befits me if I wanna go into a relationship... I don't date anyhow and if I want to, I know exactly what I look out for in a man,so for the different talks going round about this issue, my heart and skin is so thick and solid like a rock, its always like that for someone who has almost seen it all in life, so they should keep talking about it. It's normal.


WHAT CAN A MAN DO TO FIRST WIN YOUR HEART, I MEAN FIRST THING INCASE HE  WANTS TO DATE YOU.

He should have a sincere humble nature and keeps crediting my account then he has past the first stage.



 YOUR FANS THE AYOLITES EXPECIALLY THE GUYS COMPLAINS DAILY THAT YOU TALK ONLY ABOUT THE MEN HEREBY PUTTING THEM IN FEAR AND JEOPARDY 
WHAT CAN YOU SAY ABOUT THAT ?

I am not surprised with this complaints from the male fans and am already use to it, so many of them comes to my inbox daily to say all sort of things, some even said they they pray many ladies do not get to see my blog and when I asked why the evil prayer? They said its because am informing the girls too much and this is bringing casting to them. Women are been used and abused daily so i think they need the brain resetting Ayoyinka Odeyemi blog stands for more. I am not saying that the men don't get abused too, women needs it more because in a relationship, naturally a woman loses most.  Well am not bothered because I know the male folks very well, when it comes to relationship and s*x issue men have double standard. Let me give you an example of what I mean by men having double standard. A guy on my blog told me sometimes ago that he dated a girl for two good years without having s*x with her, he said whenever he wanted to have sex with his girlfriend, the girl usually say no, then after two years he kept disturbing her for s*x and this girl told him to go and see her parents, he said he went with his girlfriend's family house to see her parents, he was well taken care of that day.

After he left her parent's place, he started disturbing her for s*x again, that after all he has seen her parents she asked for but the girl told him to do the proper marriage first then they can have s*x, he said that was how he got angry and left the girl,he said he cannot cope with three years of no s*x relationship. He now told me this, he said "Ayo, though I left this girl because I couldn't cope but in future, when I get married and have female children, I will train them the way that girl was trained".

This statement from him got me thinking for days.....he abandoned his girlfriend because of s*x but he still wants his future daughters to be trained like this same girl......girls need to learn a lot. S*x to lots of men is nothing but just a warming of thier pen*s.


SOME OF YOUR FANS CLAIMS THAT YOU ARE STILL HURT ABOUT YOUR PAST HENCE YOUR ADVICES ARE ALWAYS TARGETING MEN FOR A REVENGE?

Still hurt about what past exactly? Look OG,I don't bear grudges in mind, if they get to know me well, they will know that I don't waste time on things that doesn't give me joy, the last relationship I had ended some years back and that is bygone, as I am now,i am too big for just dating anyhow, once you are not coming for the purpose of marriage,you are not making sense to me. And of course the man should know who he's coming to meet,not one of those girls they sleep with "OSHO FREE" because of the promise of "I will marry you"



OSHO FREE? WHAT DA HELL IS THAT?


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I see...anyway, in  a simple term, OSHO FREE is a situation whereby a guy is having constant free sex with a girl all in the name of "I will marry you," I love you" or one fake promise or the other, the girls who are not wise will quickly open their legs at the mention of these words instead of waiting for proper fulfilment of those words first...especially the I will marry you part.

YOU MADE A POST RECENTLY ON YOUR FACEBOOK PAGE , ..THERE WAS PANDEMONIUM ON THAT POST THAT SO MANY GIRLS AND GUYS WERE WAILING EXCEPT FOR THE FEW ONES WHO REALLY UNDERSTOOD THAT POST 

please remind me about the post.

 OK , YOU SAID THOSE LADIES CALLING OTHER LADIES  PROSTITUTE BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT GIVING FREE S*X ARE ALSO PROSTITUTES ?


OH I remember now, that was not exactly how I even put it...let me just summarize the post here. What I meant is this, a lady having s*x with her boyfriend for free because she's in love, or the guy has promised her marriage is the same thing with the lady who is having s*X for good cash and other valuable things, then I said if we would even go by the worldly standard, the one that collects good cash is even better , and if its for disease risk both of them are at risk, the osho free lady's boyfriend might give her infection too, and if its for rituals, she might also be used by her poor boyfriend for money rituals to become rich.....to me the both of them are the same sin before God, so those girls having pre  marital s*x with their boyfriend for free or love are not in anyway better than than the girls who have s*x for money,cars and houses. The both still leads to hell fire, then i said the best is closing their legs to serve God till marriage.


YOU MEAN EVEN IF THE BOTH OF THEM ARE LOYAL TO THEMSELVES, THE LADY IS STILL A PROSTITUTE?

Oh yes!  There's nothing like been loyal here,  i still maintain my stand that any lady opening her legs for a man who isn't legally married to her is a prostitute, so people should stop calling other girls who gets money and gifts in return as prostitutes alone. Some girls are so daft to the extent that you see them calling their fellow girls who collects money and gifts as prostitutes but they see themselves as saint and they are still having sex all in the name of boyfriend and girlfriend, absolute rubbish.
Some of them even say this," as far as am doing it with my boyfriend only and not with other men" is your boyfriend your legally married husband? Please receive brainresttings in Jesus name. My dear, giving him "OSHO FREE" sex doesn't make you any better than the girls who do it for a substantial amount of money and gifts.

WHO IS YOUR MENTOR ..? 

Though have told you where my inspiration comes from but I have a special mentor by name MATTHEW ONI...........

CAN YOU MARRY HIM IF HE'S STILL SINGLE ?

No I can't because he's like a brother.

SO WHAT CAN YOU GENERALLY SAY ABOUT AYOS BLOG ? 

well Ayoyinka Odeyemi blog talks more about love,life and relationship awareness and it's a special blog for brainresetting to prevent dating abuse unbalanced and broken relationships. There are lots of bad relationships these days leading to bad marriages causing Havocs and untimely death,destroying destinies.

 Ayoyinka Odeyemi is to create awareness for people in other to properly understand what dating is all about so they can enjoy their marriages. Funny enough, majority of our young guys and girls don't even know what dating is all about. They think is just s*x s*x s*x money money only. So this is what Ayosblog stands for.

Though I do some sort of news if its been sent to my email by a source or I am opportuned to be at the scene, I quickly blog it out as a breaking news..... but Ayoyinka Odeyemi blog is majorly established for giving people especially the singles brainresettings so as to choose wisely in terms of marriage because a bad marriage choice can destroy a whole destiny.

YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO CELEBRATE ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY of AYOS BLOG AND IT WAS A MUCH EXPECTED PART BY MANY FANS WHICH DIDN'T LATER HOLD , CAN YOU PLEASE TELL US ABOUT IT ?..

yes the party was supposed to hold my march this year 2017 but on the first of march, google took down my blog permanently due to some reasons and all efforts to bring it back was abortive, the stress was too much and I was like, what are we then celebrating when the blog was gone. I had to buy another domain and begin from the scratch again by then it was already past the date. Well am still trying to see how I can fix the party back and it will be strictly by invitation.


WHO IS YOUR IDEAL MAN ?: 

Well just three things because am not a selfish being. my Man's first priority must be to make heaven, secondly he must not be a broke guy and thirdly he should be someone who can make me orgasm multiple times in bed, be it sucking or in whatever way I want it, if he can't make me orgasm multiple times he should just forget it.

SO WHEN IS AYOYINKA GETTING MARRIED?

Soon dear


SINCE YOU PREACH NO S*X BEFORE MARRIAGE ON YOUR BLOG, HOW THEN WILL YOU KNOW IF HE CAN GIVE YOU MULTIPLE ORGASM?

LOL.. It's very simple, orgasm don't just come,something must trigger it. So if he isn't getting it right, I will have to teach him and show him what he will do to those places on my body to bring multiple orgasm.


IT IS WIDELY SPECULATED THAT YOU ADVICE YOUR FEMALE FANS NOT TO DATE A POOR GUY , CAN YOU CLARIFY THAT STATEMENT ?...........

That's what they keep saying, the guys are the ones saying this more I know there are few girls who join them in saying this too but all am gonna say here is that there's a!misconception about some posts on my blog. Like a guy said some time ago on my blog that "if one is not well routed in relationship experiences, one might begin to misinterpret what ayo is talking about, at times it takes extra knowledge to understand her posts"

Yes,I tell girls who comes to me for an advice not to date any man who is jobless, and the next thing people say is that Ayoyinka is a man hater and says trash. Please it is not mandatory you take my advice,if a jobless man is what is good for you ,you can go ahead and date him but how can a girl who is working and earning well be seen with a jobless guy?

A guy who has refused to work,will kill the woman's world because he has absolutely nothing to offer than his wandering penis,which is nonsense. Any girl that follows a jobless man will lose woefully. These same guys talking have come to asked me some questions in my inbox and I told them to dump any girl that doesn't appreciate them, they won't talk about that but when I post about what the females should do they will start making a hell of noise.

Meanwhile the next thing God gave Adam after putting him in the garden of Eden was work (Genesis 2:15)...God gave man work before giving him a woman, which means a man need to get a job before getting a woman, that's Gods words. So when I see ladies dating jobless men, I pity them a lot. The world has been so basterdized that even the men now claim that women are the ones running after them,begging the men to date and have sex with them after they would have given the guys food stuffs and cash. ....giving a man money and food stuff just to date and have sex with you?GOD FORBID! Disgusting! I have told the women and I will keep on saying it that as a woman, you dont have to really do anything for a man to love and cherish you, nothing at all! Not giving him your hard earned  money, constant sex, fighting for him and the likes...a man that will love and cherish you will do that because he has decided to not you crying and begging him like someone who is worthles.

HOW DO YOU SEE YOURSELF 5 YEARS FROM NOW ?

Even before the five years time, I want someone to see me or whenever my name is been mentioned, someone will say, oh its because of Ayoyinka Odeyemi brainresttings blog I didn't get into a marriage of an error,  infact that will be my greatest achievement in the blogging sphere.


ANY LAST WORD FOR YOUR FANS OUT THERE ?

For my fans out there, (the ayolites) I cherish them so much and will continue to.
Can't stop praying for them, I want the best for all of them.

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