OG was opportuned to meet with Ayoyinka Odeyemi in Ikeja Lagos, enjoy the brainresettings blogger's interview as she bare it all.
O G- PLS CAN YOU TELL US A LITTLE ABOUT YOURSELF?
I am Ayoyinka Florence Odeyemi, born and bred in Lagos but originally from osun state. Number 8 out of 9 children from my parents. I graduated from (OAU),Obafemi Awolowo University, studied FRENCH AND EDUCATION.i am a blogger,a relationship coach.
WHAT MOTIVATED /INSPIRED YOU INTO YOUR KIND OF BLOG? (LOVE,LIFE AND RELATIONSHIP BLOG)
I think it has been destined to be what I will do because I can remember vividly right from my school days, I advice my friends about their relationship issues, they also bring their friends too.. if they follow whatever I told them, they usually come back to say thank you to me, though the devil waged a very big war against me few years back but I am now an over comer, i deviated in school but God made me to rise above all issues and i move on quickly. Today, I have become a very strong woman.
So my inspiration is from God and all the tremendous experiences have had....yes I have had vast experiences when it comes to relationships.
WHAT IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP STATUS
I am single
FROM YOUR FANS PAGE,YOU HAVE LOTS OF FOLLOWERS, HOW ARE YOU ABLE TO KEEP COACHING THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE DAILY AS A SINGLE WOMAN BECAUSE MANY WOULD THINK ONLY A MARRIED WOMAN SHOULD BE A COACH ?
I don't really understand what people think marriage is, whenever a single woman is doing something nice, the next thing people wants to pokenose if she's married and that's why many are entering into marriage of an error and they are dieing wasting their destinies away...who says a single lady can't be a coach? If you know the experiences have had then you would understand that it will be a waste if I don't coach. Well if they have never seen any single lady who coaches, Ayoyinka Odeyemi is here to make a difference.
Like I said up there, this is what have been destined to do, I coach people daily from the inspirations I get from God then added the various experiences have had...and I also think the education I studied isn't a waste too in this scenario. Honestly people are testifying, I wish I could show you my email you would marvel at the kind of mail I get daily. Some would say " Ayo, I have really learnt my lessons the hard way thought you were teaching us bad things until it happened to me,thanks for been a saviour please keep up the good work, don't stop". So even when some unappreciative people come to my blog to oppose my posts, I don't really give a damn because I know where I am heading to,I have a focus and a direction. My experiences in terms of relationship issues are too enormous to be wasted just like that without making people, especially the younger ones learn from it.
THERE'S A RUMOUR GOING ROUND THAT YOU ARE DATING ONE OF YOUR FANS HOW TRUE IS THIS ?
Please where did you get that from? Anyway the only one I know who was an Ayolite (my fans are called ayolites) we met some few months back then I posted our pics we both snapped on my blog ,that was how people blew it out of proportion, well anyone can say whatever they like, am not the type that listen to gossip and I know what befits me if I wanna go into a relationship... I don't date anyhow and if I want to, I know exactly what I look out for in a man,so for the different talks going round about this issue, my heart and skin is so thick and solid like a rock, its always like that for someone who has almost seen it all in life, so they should keep talking about it. It's normal.
WHAT CAN A MAN DO TO FIRST WIN YOUR HEART, I MEAN FIRST THING INCASE HE WANTS TO DATE YOU.
He should have a sincere humble nature and keeps crediting my account then he has past the first stage.
YOUR FANS THE AYOLITES EXPECIALLY THE GUYS COMPLAINS DAILY THAT YOU TALK ONLY ABOUT THE MEN HEREBY PUTTING THEM IN FEAR AND JEOPARDY
WHAT CAN YOU SAY ABOUT THAT ?
I am not surprised with this complaints from the male fans and am already use to it, so many of them comes to my inbox daily to say all sort of things, some even said they they pray many ladies do not get to see my blog and when I asked why the evil prayer? They said its because am informing the girls too much and this is bringing casting to them. Women are been used and abused daily so i think they need the brain resetting Ayoyinka Odeyemi blog stands for more. I am not saying that the men don't get abused too, women needs it more because in a relationship, naturally a woman loses most. Well am not bothered because I know the male folks very well, when it comes to relationship and s*x issue men have double standard. Let me give you an example of what I mean by men having double standard. A guy on my blog told me sometimes ago that he dated a girl for two good years without having s*x with her, he said whenever he wanted to have sex with his girlfriend, the girl usually say no, then after two years he kept disturbing her for s*x and this girl told him to go and see her parents, he said he went with his girlfriend's family house to see her parents, he was well taken care of that day.
After he left her parent's place, he started disturbing her for s*x again, that after all he has seen her parents she asked for but the girl told him to do the proper marriage first then they can have s*x, he said that was how he got angry and left the girl,he said he cannot cope with three years of no s*x relationship. He now told me this, he said "Ayo, though I left this girl because I couldn't cope but in future, when I get married and have female children, I will train them the way that girl was trained".
This statement from him got me thinking for days.....he abandoned his girlfriend because of s*x but he still wants his future daughters to be trained like this same girl......girls need to learn a lot. S*x to lots of men is nothing but just a warming of thier pen*s.
SOME OF YOUR FANS CLAIMS THAT YOU ARE STILL HURT ABOUT YOUR PAST HENCE YOUR ADVICES ARE ALWAYS TARGETING MEN FOR A REVENGE?
Still hurt about what past exactly? Look OG,I don't bear grudges in mind, if they get to know me well, they will know that I don't waste time on things that doesn't give me joy, the last relationship I had ended some years back and that is bygone, as I am now,i am too big for just dating anyhow, once you are not coming for the purpose of marriage,you are not making sense to me. And of course the man should know who he's coming to meet,not one of those girls they sleep with "OSHO FREE" because of the promise of "I will marry you"
OSHO FREE? WHAT DA HELL IS THAT?
OG you like gossiping,
OG: Yes we are the number one certified gossipper @oleevergist.com
I see...anyway, in a simple term, OSHO FREE is a situation whereby a guy is having constant free sex with a girl all in the name of "I will marry you," I love you" or one fake promise or the other, the girls who are not wise will quickly open their legs at the mention of these words instead of waiting for proper fulfilment of those words first...especially the I will marry you part.
YOU MADE A POST RECENTLY ON YOUR FACEBOOK PAGE , ..THERE WAS PANDEMONIUM ON THAT POST THAT SO MANY GIRLS AND GUYS WERE WAILING EXCEPT FOR THE FEW ONES WHO REALLY UNDERSTOOD THAT POST
please remind me about the post.
OK , YOU SAID THOSE LADIES CALLING OTHER LADIES PROSTITUTE BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT GIVING FREE S*X ARE ALSO PROSTITUTES ?
OH I remember now, that was not exactly how I even put it...let me just summarize the post here. What I meant is this, a lady having s*x with her boyfriend for free because she's in love, or the guy has promised her marriage is the same thing with the lady who is having s*X for good cash and other valuable things, then I said if we would even go by the worldly standard, the one that collects good cash is even better , and if its for disease risk both of them are at risk, the osho free lady's boyfriend might give her infection too, and if its for rituals, she might also be used by her poor boyfriend for money rituals to become rich.....to me the both of them are the same sin before God, so those girls having pre marital s*x with their boyfriend for free or love are not in anyway better than than the girls who have s*x for money,cars and houses. The both still leads to hell fire, then i said the best is closing their legs to serve God till marriage.
YOU MEAN EVEN IF THE BOTH OF THEM ARE LOYAL TO THEMSELVES, THE LADY IS STILL A PROSTITUTE?
Oh yes! There's nothing like been loyal here, i still maintain my stand that any lady opening her legs for a man who isn't legally married to her is a prostitute, so people should stop calling other girls who gets money and gifts in return as prostitutes alone. Some girls are so daft to the extent that you see them calling their fellow girls who collects money and gifts as prostitutes but they see themselves as saint and they are still having sex all in the name of boyfriend and girlfriend, absolute rubbish.
Some of them even say this," as far as am doing it with my boyfriend only and not with other men" is your boyfriend your legally married husband? Please receive brainresttings in Jesus name. My dear, giving him "OSHO FREE" sex doesn't make you any better than the girls who do it for a substantial amount of money and gifts.
WHO IS YOUR MENTOR ..?
Though have told you where my inspiration comes from but I have a special mentor by name MATTHEW ONI...........
CAN YOU MARRY HIM IF HE'S STILL SINGLE ?
No I can't because he's like a brother.
SO WHAT CAN YOU GENERALLY SAY ABOUT AYOS BLOG ?
well Ayoyinka Odeyemi blog talks more about love,life and relationship awareness and it's a special blog for brainresetting to prevent dating abuse unbalanced and broken relationships. There are lots of bad relationships these days leading to bad marriages causing Havocs and untimely death,destroying destinies.
Ayoyinka Odeyemi is to create awareness for people in other to properly understand what dating is all about so they can enjoy their marriages. Funny enough, majority of our young guys and girls don't even know what dating is all about. They think is just s*x s*x s*x money money only. So this is what Ayosblog stands for.
Though I do some sort of news if its been sent to my email by a source or I am opportuned to be at the scene, I quickly blog it out as a breaking news..... but Ayoyinka Odeyemi blog is majorly established for giving people especially the singles brainresettings so as to choose wisely in terms of marriage because a bad marriage choice can destroy a whole destiny.
YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO CELEBRATE ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY of AYOS BLOG AND IT WAS A MUCH EXPECTED PART BY MANY FANS WHICH DIDN'T LATER HOLD , CAN YOU PLEASE TELL US ABOUT IT ?..
yes the party was supposed to hold my march this year 2017 but on the first of march, google took down my blog permanently due to some reasons and all efforts to bring it back was abortive, the stress was too much and I was like, what are we then celebrating when the blog was gone. I had to buy another domain and begin from the scratch again by then it was already past the date. Well am still trying to see how I can fix the party back and it will be strictly by invitation.
WHO IS YOUR IDEAL MAN ?:
Well just three things because am not a selfish being. my Man's first priority must be to make heaven, secondly he must not be a broke guy and thirdly he should be someone who can make me orgasm multiple times in bed, be it sucking or in whatever way I want it, if he can't make me orgasm multiple times he should just forget it.
SO WHEN IS AYOYINKA GETTING MARRIED?
Soon dear
SINCE YOU PREACH NO S*X BEFORE MARRIAGE ON YOUR BLOG, HOW THEN WILL YOU KNOW IF HE CAN GIVE YOU MULTIPLE ORGASM?
LOL.. It's very simple, orgasm don't just come,something must trigger it. So if he isn't getting it right, I will have to teach him and show him what he will do to those places on my body to bring multiple orgasm.
IT IS WIDELY SPECULATED THAT YOU ADVICE YOUR FEMALE FANS NOT TO DATE A POOR GUY , CAN YOU CLARIFY THAT STATEMENT ?...........
That's what they keep saying, the guys are the ones saying this more I know there are few girls who join them in saying this too but all am gonna say here is that there's a!misconception about some posts on my blog. Like a guy said some time ago on my blog that "if one is not well routed in relationship experiences, one might begin to misinterpret what ayo is talking about, at times it takes extra knowledge to understand her posts"
Yes,I tell girls who comes to me for an advice not to date any man who is jobless, and the next thing people say is that Ayoyinka is a man hater and says trash. Please it is not mandatory you take my advice,if a jobless man is what is good for you ,you can go ahead and date him but how can a girl who is working and earning well be seen with a jobless guy?
A guy who has refused to work,will kill the woman's world because he has absolutely nothing to offer than his wandering penis,which is nonsense. Any girl that follows a jobless man will lose woefully. These same guys talking have come to asked me some questions in my inbox and I told them to dump any girl that doesn't appreciate them, they won't talk about that but when I post about what the females should do they will start making a hell of noise.
Meanwhile the next thing God gave Adam after putting him in the garden of Eden was work (Genesis 2:15)...God gave man work before giving him a woman, which means a man need to get a job before getting a woman, that's Gods words. So when I see ladies dating jobless men, I pity them a lot. The world has been so basterdized that even the men now claim that women are the ones running after them,begging the men to date and have sex with them after they would have given the guys food stuffs and cash. ....giving a man money and food stuff just to date and have sex with you?GOD FORBID! Disgusting! I have told the women and I will keep on saying it that as a woman, you dont have to really do anything for a man to love and cherish you, nothing at all! Not giving him your hard earned money, constant sex, fighting for him and the likes...a man that will love and cherish you will do that because he has decided to not you crying and begging him like someone who is worthles.
HOW DO YOU SEE YOURSELF 5 YEARS FROM NOW ?
Even before the five years time, I want someone to see me or whenever my name is been mentioned, someone will say, oh its because of Ayoyinka Odeyemi brainresttings blog I didn't get into a marriage of an error, infact that will be my greatest achievement in the blogging sphere.
ANY LAST WORD FOR YOUR FANS OUT THERE ?
For my fans out there, (the ayolites) I cherish them so much and will continue to.
Can't stop praying for them, I want the best for all of them.
To connect with her blog,
Like her On Facebook fans page: Ayoyinka Odeyemi Blog
Twitter:@Ayosblog
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